So, something interesting of note to me…and perhaps you’ll find me totally naive…but there’s A LOT of younger men out there who wanna get it on with an older woman? Perhaps they’ve been watching too much Desperate Housewives or The Housewives of Orange County or something. I don’t know…?
When I initially put my profile up on the dating site, I said I was looking for men 35 to 45 because that’s close to my age and I thought men in that range would be most interested in me. I did, however, note that I’d be willing to consider younger men if they were looking for something similar. So, the younger guys started sending me messages.
I met up with a couple of them and quickly learned they just are not for me. Sure, they’re hot. But, they just do not have the maturity level I’m interested in…and they don’t have the life experience either. The conversation mostly centered around sex and as hard as I tried to move it away, they always moved it back. Mostly, I think they just wanna tell their friends they banged a cougar or a MILF! I’m very clear on my profile that I don’t want to hook up. But, the two that I met definitely thought they were gonna get some that night…they didn’t…both said let’s go out again…and guess what? I didn’t hear from them again. I have no time for that kind of shit. And, thus the process begins of separating the boys from the men!
My profile no longer states that I’d consider younger men. This process is hard enough and I don’t need to waste my time with boys. I need a man!
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